PSYCHICSTOPSYCHICS WINTER BLUES

I have many thoughts about the winter season, it does herald crisp frosty mornings, white dusted trees and fields, and the feeling of snugly sitting in front of the fire watching the dancing flames – all of these things are the picturesque images of the season which really begins for me in November. But it has with it a dark side which comes with much earlier drawing in of evenings, less chance of dancing in the rain, more like rushing to avoid the gales and torrents, It is a time when the increase in my work is significant too, as it does mark a time when hopes and dreams and all future inspirations become much harder to imagine. For some reason I believe we all suffer slightly in some degree with the illness named SAD – which is basically sun deprivation and along with it comes the increased need for bursts of positivity and perhaps that surge of looking forward. The whole relationship issue also comes in for a battering, not only is their an increased need for company, not so easily obtained even by a walk with the dog, or the fateful meeting of the “one” when social calendars drop slightly before the festive season ones begin, but also for those in partnerships where there is a forced need to stay in a bit more and thereby little escape is offered – Certain elements of this time must be faced, it is inevitable every year that winter will come and animals and insects all accept this and plan ahead, the bees certainly and those who know me will also know are my great friends and keeping them brings me my own rewards, store and save the supplies for the winter knowing that pollen will be less available. They work together in a great effort to support each other and give that unification so evident inside the hive at this time.

People argue more as bills rise, or struggle more when they have to make more of an effort to get ready to go out for the evening, where an unexpected invitation to a barbecue seems to spur on an immediate excitement and vision of basking outside with good food, drink and company, the thought of going out to dinner and having to prepare and wrap up warmly before venturing out in the first place remains a little less inviting. I can only in my work give out the energy of acceptance where we have no choice in the seasons coming in and we have to “ride it out” but we know there is the promise of the oncoming spring, we also have many indoor activities which can enlighten the time in between and we must try to work together more during the winter spell to give each other support rather than stand lonely and as individuals, not only does this promote warming thoughts, but gives us the feeling of unity, which is always heartwarming and uplifting. So for all it is time to pull on the hats and gloves and be positive towards others as this extension of love and caring will bring out the best in all we are all in it together after all. If we are going to hibernate, lets do it together!

PSYCHICS TO PSYCHICS -WHY WE ARE HERE?

So where does the Psychic reader /Medium fit into this fast moving techno world? While we have computers to operate the workplace, find us a mate, buy our food and get it delivered and even find our horoscopes it sometimes can be hard to imagine that a person among the millions of of wires, chips and advances of buying a program which gives you a tarot reading, can provide the information or even still maintain a need for those out there who want to know whats going on in the spiritual world and around them for the future. But strangely in a way the personal pychic as almost gained a fashion status implication where celebrities, famous people and even royalty have been reported as consulting and asking for guidance from the mystic world. There is still and maybe always will be the need for the human personal touch, a voice, and a listening ear, and a calming reassurance at the end of the line, instead the stare into the screen of google links on "tell me what my future is" pages.

There was a time when answers came in the form of What, How and When and maybe even now that is the case but the developments where answers can be given to people in this form is readily available all over the internet freely. A wide ranging selection of answers can in fact be in an indication that the individual can immediately answer many of these questions. Ehow, Ask.com, Yahoo Answers so many places to find even the most obscure answers to a problem and fast. But the indications are that a lot of people require more than that in their position and that is what the spiritual psychic reader can offer.

Years ago people turned to priests, doctors or similar to find the solace and answers to their dilemmas, agony aunt columns headed the most flicked to pages in a magazine. The problems may have varied slightly but the need is still the same. In my own experience certainly there has been a drawing towards a need to answer people in some situations with the reassurance they do not seem to be able to find from friends and family. There are some where there is no "general" helpline that covers " how do I deal with my husband of 25 years deciding he now needs a change in his life and is fast disappearing down the drive with his new girlfriend?" or where a person cannot function normally each day because they have feelings for their cousin who is married anyway. There are the questions for some which involve changes in peoples ideals, plans and what they were confident about several years before but which now has become a tormented journey for them to travel there and where can they turn. The next best direction is only offered as the psychicline and the psychic person who can at least offer them hope that someone is willing to listen.Criticised or favoured, the need is not in doubt.

This is not to say that the countless helplines which operate and some very often through volunteer and support groups do not provide a fantastic and much needed service, they have their rightful place and should always be given the greatest respect and gratitude. They "worried from Manchester" has talked their direct family to boredom -some have no friends who would understand, some feel the friends they do have, no longer have that same interest and will raise their eyebrows if they begin again on the same subject and many turn to the Psychic Lines. So should this service be readily available free of charge, a telephone psychic is paid a very small percentage of the overall per minute rate paid by the caller, it is not a true indication of their payment in an advertisement and naturally the telecommunications industry feeds the reader with calls which enables them to do what they know is their particular calling in life - to help and guide.

There is a disclaimer on all registered line advertisements which says " for entertainment purposes only" this is required by the regulators of telephone communications in the UK and may have in fact being slightly more applicable in times gone by, but far from it some of the clients now are from all sorts of walks of life and are not in way looking for a joke or laugh at their situation. Some have serious and life-changing dilemmas, some are lost and alone, some have that great big void of time in front of them and cannot see a way out. Anyone who works on these lines fast learns that the depth and the need for them is far greater than the simplistic view of reading cards or calling on a loved one, and it is at the this point I am not generalising, I am speaking from my own experience. There are of course the calls which fall into the more predictive category of "what does my future hold?", but some of the calls and fast increasing in number are about personal confidence, belief in a future which nothing suggests is present at this time, and even desperation into what to do in career, business and financial pathways or the main expanse of calls into relationships. Society has changed, divorce, single parent, and broken families are much higher than ever before and support obviously due to the usage of these services is equally obviously in demand. In my future column I hope to show it is not just about those out there who have a couple of hours to spend talking about myths and mystical subjects or even a few extra pounds to waste away.

A friend of mine was of the opinion my work entailed chatting on a phone about what star sign the person was, what the probabilities of getting married were and when would they see someone they liked again, without divulging or giving any confidential information she was incredulous to the facts of some peoples needs and actually now views my work completely differently. Readers have often become targets of abuse and criticism and in essence that they "cash in on peoples situations" but no more than the service that a directory enquiry company does, which genuinely in the early years was a free service to help people get hold of a number that they couldnt find, but is now a chargeable phone call, it should be viewed that the people who are doing the helping on the psychic line have to earn a living and this is the way that some can do very successfully with their experience in dealing with people in a spiritual or even in a guidance way. A genuine psychic readers will offer further confidence to someone by suggesting they go and seek professional help, or a support group, many will give the courage to someone who is suffering from a confusion to seek advice from a supportive source, they will not just take their money from them and move onto the next client without thought or care. They will offer them a feeling that they have been listened to that they do matter and that there is in fact a way forward and in essence do have a future and hope. The word psychic has many deeper meanings to those who work within the industry, it is a gift of being able to help people to understand where they are coming from and to give them that time which the person in need cannot seem to find anywhere else.

People still have a denial mentality which does not allow them to willingly feel or accept they have a problem where a counsellor or support group could offer solace. They believe they do not need help and they label a whole range of rational sites, phone services as not for them, but for somebody else. There is fundamentally evidence to suggest that those same people will ring a psychic line as to them it initially it does not make them feel they have a problem at all and the title does lead them to call with relief that they do not have to admit they are themselves responsible or have to take responsibility or there is a problem to be dealt with.

To blanket the whole situation as people who just chat and charge is something usually emanating from someone who hasnt yet had to face a serious life problem, or who has a strong family or security around them, and wouldnt be going anywhere near a place which charged them to talk. With the greatest respect to them, no one is infallible- there will always be a time in the future,where an obstacle arises- which no one has the knowledge of. For that reason, none of us are in a position to criticise those on this earth who are doing their bit to help others along that path of life.

Next Time..... Who Calls A Psychic Line

Future Blogs include

The Money Maker

The Celebrity Psychic

The Spiritual Link -Friend Or Guide

The Psychic Experience -Why It is Needed

Saint Or Sinner

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Psychics to Psychics- Internet Love

Matchmaker, Matchmaker,
Make me a match,
Find me a find,
catch me a catch
Matchmaker, Matchmaker
Look through your book,
And make me a perfect match
( The Matchmaker Song- Copyright Fiddler on The Roof Lyrics)



How time flies!! It seems like we are already in August and now heading towards the time of the year when nights draw in and thoughts become sometimes less sociable and less inclined to going out. Social networking sites must surely this year be looking forward to a high degree of rising traffic, as well as the online dating and meeting people sites both of which have become social interaction elements for all, young and old.
Now no longer are we asked to remain among the company of those we see regularly at work or at play, we can talk to people from every corner of the world and not only learn but also react and even in some cases arrange to meet, from the comfort of our own homes.
I remember Facebook in the early days being so much more a site where kids would rush home from school to get on to chat to friends, a private conversation where voices are not even heard, and how people became aware the internet could now link you with people you dont see everyday as well or those you may not have seen for so many years you could only wonder where or what they were up to. Now all these technological breakthroughs have opened a wealth of opportunities to those who are either by choice or restriction but are needy of company from their own home and such a wonderful world of communication has been opened out.

As a reader and working in the communications industry and also in the relationship and partnership industry I can also feel and highlight the other sides whereby Facebook is mentioned so often as a tool of discovery into what a partner or someone who is fantasised about is up to, and how it can be almost used as a silent spying connection and how it has an interaction into relationships in general where "my partner spends his time chatting to someone who he says is just a friend" comments are becoming more and more frequent.

Make up or break ups have taken on a whole new computerised look to them and even in advice emails and texts are the constantly used means of keeping in touch with people - this has good and bad effects, very often there are questions left unanswered, words misread, or in the worst cases, total blocking of communication and some people are left bereft almost in worse situations than they were when a phone call or face to face meeting bluntly put all the facts before them. There is a whole new world out there of communications which rely on what is seen and almost in opposition to being open and honest in feelings some of these sites have encouraged a degree of hidden messages, fantasical situations and time lost when people do not have the time to sit and even try to discuss where the relationship is going wrong.

Where dating sites promise "the perfect match" presumably by some "perfectly developed program" and all persons are supposed to be honest and upfront about their situations there are still many occasions when the "internet love affair " can seriously blow out and leave broken hearts in many burnt out pieces which are just as scarring as the situation where someone is stood up on a date at the local bar. I do actually think the whole dating and online meeting system is a good one, it opens out a wealth of possibilities for those people who may not have the courage to go out and mix socially where their confidence levels are still a little weak, or where the locations themselves may not be readily available. The idea or concept of finding and discussing and learning about a person before they meet and the likes and dislikes being matched up is in essence half way there to finding a long term partner. It is as always open to abuse by those who do not realise that the person the other end of the line is a person not someone they can just block or disconnect like an old radio or television to allow in the new one to take position. Some people who use this site are still at a vunerable stage and maybe enter into them without proper thoughts and can build a fantasy or fairy tale around lovely words and comments without the real substance of body language, smiles and even interaction of eyes - of course this is not to be generalised and in many cases the people who use them and have done so successfully would argue that it is about using the site for as much as you want out of it. Working as I do with many who have relationship issues, I do see a trend of problems which did not exist before the internet and can only speak as I find.

Where it all goes from here who knows, the webcam connections will allow a little more of physical interaction and certainly the plus points of the shy and retiring person stuck within their four walls who now has 1,000 "friends on Facebook" must be a bonus in these developments, the idea that we no longer have to take the chance in the local clubs to meet someone who is about as close to us in personal interests as a spanner to a wooden spoon (although both tools of a trade) and that the next person we meet is in fact interested in the same values, ideas and aspects of life that we are must equally help build confidence rather than make people insecure or in the worst cases depressed that they will never find anyone for them, there are definite signs that the whole interactive industry in relationships is here to stay and definitely for the right reasons should do so, do they take away the magic of fate inspired meetings? or how we view the whole fairytale meeting of the soulmate we are waiting for is another question for another time, for now we must accept their growth and their involvement in the future-

How people view them and position them in their lives perhaps should be a point relevant to the next school curriculum and syllabus review!

PSYCHICS TO PSYCHICS, FUTURE TO FUTURE

Have you always dreamed to seeing into the future? Do you like the film Back to The Future and all those space orientated movies where people float around in cars that look like robots and eat a full roast dinner from a vending machine? The whole idea of being a psychic reader is to some exactly that, "will I win the lottery?" can you tell me "how to win someones heart?" Many many blogs, links and internet and indeed newspaper articles have covered many of the subjects so many times and even more than that deep down in everyones heart there is a little human longing to be able to see what happens next, even on the least spiritual level of "Will England Win the World Cup? " However the art of psychic reading and spiritual predictions no matter how we dress it up and make it sound or give it new titles or areas of interest is one where in most cases the very definitive fact is that people need help, people need to talk, people may even need advice and that call or connection to a psychic gives them something in life to either validate or lift them and hopefully in all cases give them a feeling they have someone else out there who cares.
Although my blog may go into some of the areas of reading it is not for a advice for those who do not need it, nor is it putting everyone in the same category, it is hopefully to become a link which will help those who are out there helping others. or in other words the link between psychics, or readers or those who work in any industry which in a caring way links us all. No one is infallible and sometimes it is hard to get the balance right in any working life. Psychics have been criticised for many years as to being fakes, giving people false hope, taking money for nothing etc, but for most it is a way of sharing a gift which they have and enabling a great many people who in fact would not be living in the way they do now if they hadnt found the support they needed at the time. Readers are genuinely gifted people who have the counselling skills of listening and also bringing understanding to people where there are troubles. in fact it would be surprising to ask many psychic readers if they get more people who ask for help than those who just ask am I going to make more money next year or similar.

My blog is for all the psychics out there, all the readers and there are many, judging by the websites popping up all over the place, and for all those who genuinely wish to offer support, readers will carry on regardless but hopefully this will become a meeting place where other psychics can learn themselves and share with others - that is it, simply a sharing place to perhaps give your own experiences or ideas - I would only ask that you refrain from personal references as ethics to me stand highly and no one should feel they are phoning or speaking to a psychic only to find it somewhere being detailed on the web, Problems which come up are worldwide and of course very similar in every culture, race and country, but individually a person always must feel they are being listened to as a unique person. Come and Join Me and Hopefully together we will make the psychic world for psychics and readers, clarivoyants, mediums and all a better happier place as now we too can feel we are not alone.